[workshop] How To Eat Pussy

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How To Eat Pussy, a workshop for GLOBE & Make the Road NY
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Icebreaker (10 minutes) What are all the words you know for vagina?
pussy vulva snatch choach vagina choca chomi vajayjay

Lets agree on something to call it for the purpose of this workshop that doesn’t offend or turn anybody off.


Part I - Communication + Attentiveness

These are probably the two most crucial deciding factors in whether or not you eat good pussy. You must communicate with your partner, get the conversation about STDs out of the way, and maybe even some testing if you or her have never don so before. You can use dental dams and finger cots, but communication is also an amazing tool to protect yourself. Get checked yearly for STDs, if you smell something strong emanating from your pussy or you have smelly or white, yellow, or green secretions, extreme itchiness or any other general discomfort I strongly encourage you to visit a gynecologist. Infections (i.e. yeast, bacterial, fungus, vaginosis) fade in and out but they don’t go away on their own and if left untreated can be very harmful to your health. This isn’t a session about that so I will stop here. But I really want to encourage you to talk to your partner about STDs and if you make a decision to not use dental dams it will be very important to have established meaningful trust with your partner before you eat her out. Eating pussy is not something you do to a woman, its something you do with her.

Good communication also means being able to communicate when you are enjoying something. Communication means you will know how to be attentive to what turns her on. I have some information for you regarding anatomy, but women vary incredibly in what feels good. Some women like anal play others get grossed out. Some women like it rough others, not so. So all I tell you will be useless if you don’t know how to pay attention to your partner. Ask her if it feels good. Ask her if she likes it (what your doing)? You can make this a very sexy interaction. Ask her what she wants you to do to her. Not while you’re making out with her… but when you are eating her out.


Part II – Hygiene

1. Pull back hair – I ain’t got nothing against hair but it gets in the way.
2. Clean Hands – Dirty hands cause infections. Think about it. You’ve been drinking you went to that dirty bathroom at the bar. You put your hand on the subway rail, who wants all that in their pussy? Wash your hands, you may not give her an STD but a girl ain’t gona like you if you give her a yeast infection.
3. Cut nails short and filed down – long nails cause cuts that can also lead to yeast infections or vaginosis.
4. Don’t bite your nails – biting your nails causes sharpness witch can also lead to infections–AND because it causes cuts on your fingers which puts you at risk of STDs.
5. Washing – Some people prefer to take a wash to clean themselves before getting eaten out. If you enjoy anal licking you are encouraged to take these washes as bacteria from your poop can grow in your stomach and cause lots of trouble. Some people do not recommend using soap as it disrupts the natural flora of the vagina witch regulates itself against infections… its up to you girls.
6. Shaving – This is really just a matter of preference, you can eat pussy with our without hair. I will suggest against shaving continuosly as this can cause razor burn, ingrown hairs and other skin irritations that make it easier for you to contract an STD.


Part III - Hand masturbation

The clit is bigger than you think – it runs all the way thru the vagina. As seen on Oprah (display the area of the clit). As women become excited the clit area (including the tip) begins to swell with blood and the vagina lubricates, so you can massage around and on that area. You can squeeze and stretch the outer labia. If you stretch the labia the woman can squeeze and make her clit jump. All of this is very pleasurable and is quite safe for both you and her with regards to STDs. The outer labia can withstand quite a bit of pulling and tugging, so you can get rowdy. Likewise, humping with your clothes on and general rubbing can easily lead to rowdiness (and even orgasms) without risk of contracting an STD or cause any other infection.


Part IV – Misconceptions

Many people have misconceptions about what is pleasurable for women. You don’t want to rub the clit really fast or jab your fingers into the vagina. You can use dildos for deep penetration and vibrators for the clit for that kind of intensity, but I want to talk to you about what you can do with just your hands and mouth.


Part V – Getting Started

I like to start by just licking it. I think a lot of girls get nervous about how they taste so I like to get right in there and lick the entrance of the vagina first, and moan to signal my enjoyment. If you ever have any trouble finding the clit you can always stick your tongue in the entrance of the vagina and move up. You can lick all around and just generally make out with her pussy. If choose to make direct contact with the clit, after teasing it, then you suck and lick the clit like so (display method). As you are doing this it is a very good idea to moan gently as this causes a slight vibration in her clit that is very pleasurable. Also it generally turns women on to think that you are enjoying yourself while eating her out. I would suggest against flicking with your tongue and fingers because the tip of the clit is very sensitive and you may over stimulate it, but again, all girls are different and different moods may strike in one girl. I can’t say I’ve never enjoyed it. So again this is a circumstance where you have to be attentive.


Part VI – Finger Fucking

Some girls like to get finger fucked while you are eating them out. This is another great place for attentiveness and communication because others women definitely do not like to get finer fucked when you are eating them out. If you enter your finger like so you can stimulate her Gspot, which is here (display method) also pressing over this area outside can be pleasurable. You can use your middle finger, index finger, ring finger, whichever finger feels most comfortable for you. Start with one finger, the pussy will get wet and start to open, when you notice this then you can lick your fingers and the entrance of her vagina (or use lubricant) put two fingers closely together and very slowly and gently enter it to the pussy. This is a good time to moan again.

If you enter the finger like this (display other method) then your finger/s will reach the tip of her cevix, by your nails. This is the deepest part of the vagina. If you want her to have the sensation that she is getting a deep fuck then you point your fingers in this direction. This will be a crucial place to pay attention. DO NOT JAB INTO THE PUSSY. When the pussy opens up you push down and in. If she squeezes her pussy then stop moving your fingers. This is the pussy sending you a signal to be still. Get into to it, but don’t over do it. Suck on the clit but don’t suck too hard. Think like you are gently making out with her pussy, start your fingers slowly and if she is wet enough, open, and into it then you can start to deeply penetrate her with your fingers. For starters, I would recommend to only use with two fingers, but again, it’s up to you. I like using my ring and middle finger (display method) because it frees up my index and pinky finger. If I finger fuck a woman with my index and middle finger I feel like my ring and pinky finger get crunch in her ass. I think that women enjoy anal play a lot, but I don’t like feeling like my fingers are there just because there is nowhere else to go. So I use my middle finger and my ring finger and this means that if I want to tickle or finger her ass I can do so with my index or pinky finger.


Part VII - Anal Play

Many women enjoy anal play. This has a lot to do with the fact that the clit ends around the area of the anus. They like to get licked tickled and fingered in their ass. If you are licking your partner’s ass then she can use her hand to rub her clit. You can use a finger to fuck her, but I would avoid using two because it is a very sensitive area and you may cause her discomfort. If you do try to go for more than one finger at a time be sure to go slow. If you are feeling a little icky about using your fingers then you can always use anal beads or a dildo. Remember, it is strongly encouraged that your partner wash her butt with soap and water before you lick, fuck, tickle or do anything else to her ass. Also it’s a good idea to wash your hands and face afterwards.


IIX - Toys

So we are just about wrapping up but I wanted to talk briefly about toys. Its pretty easy to incorporate toys into eating pussy. You can use a dildo instead of your fingers. This comes with pros and cons. On the one hand you have a smooth surface that is much less like to cause scratches in the vagina and on the other you loose the ability to feel her pussy as it squeeze and shakes and gets wet and all that. Here is a little advice on toys. Do not bust out the toys the first time you eat her out. Fucking a girl with a strap on or a dildo is on another level of trust. Make sure to talk abut sex toys before trying to bring them into your bed. I recommend that if you have a girlfriend you buy a toy for each other, maybe two or three. But I would suggest against using the same toys with multiple partners. Keep your toys clean or put a condom on dildos before you use them. I cannot emphasize this enough. Dirty toys cause infections. For clitoral stimulation there is a wide range of toys you can buy. I have the Magic Wand, which is no joke. You can use a vibrator for her clit and finger fuck her at the same time. I would suggest to not try to eat her out if she has a vibrator on her clit.


IX – 69 ing

Eating each other out is great. You should definitely try to 69 with your partner. I suggest you try out being on top and being on the bottom. Experiment, be a versatile lover. If you are on the top then you will be able to finger fuck her while you are eating her out, although the anal play will be more difficult. You can hook her legs with her elbows, this will lift her pussy towards you and give you a lot of space to finger fuck her. Sometimes, I like to just do that while the girl eats me out. If you are on the bottom it will be difficult for you to finger fuck. What I would recommend when you are on the bottom is that you concentrate on sucking and stimulating the clit. That way she can kind of ride your face. Moaning is great here and is even sexier because you can be pretty sure it’s a genuine pleasure moan and the vibration will feel nice.

So… What did I miss? What else do you enjoy that I did not mention?


X – STDs are real

STD risk. Does anybody know what some of the most common STDs are for women who have sex with other women? What are the risks involved in eating pussy?
What about eating a girl out when she is on her period?

Thanks I had a great time you guys. I hope you all have great sex.